Month: February 2007

If you are confused, overwhelmed, or intrigued by the amount of references to Islam in the news, University of Texas grad student and missionally minded Joey Shaw regularly sheds light on various issues surrounding the Muslim faith. Check out his blog for insights.

Michael Lawrence offers 18 helpful factors for redemptively engaging the city. Born of out of years of experience with hundreds of churches in all kinds of situations, Lawrence offers advice on everything from the influence of media to community.  Read the brief, insightful article here.

The new Barna report has collected stats on the favorablity and unfavorability of American leaders, religious and not-so-religious, ranging from U2’s Bono to Billy Graham.

According to Barna, Billy Graham is the most widely known religious leader among U.S. adults; Pat Robertson has the highest negative rating among the eleven religious leaders tested. Men and women often have significantly different views of public figures. For instance, women have much more positive views of Bono, Jimmy Carter, Bill Clinton, Patricia Heaton… For more go to the Barna website. www.barna.org

Owen’s rebellious nature is becoming more apparent. Standing outside of Magnolia’s, where we had a nice Sunday morning breakfast with the in-laws, Owen refused to get in our car. In defiance, he struck out at his grandfather, landing a blow to his ball cap. As if to soften the blow, making cute out of mean, his step-grandmother remarked, “Oh look at him a little rebelliousness!” Was any harm really done?

Harm was done…to my pride. In this split-second, my fatherly calvinistic anthropology was trumped by my own desire to look good. How could my step, step-mother-in-law say anything remotely negative about my object of my soul’s delight, my sixteen month old Owen? I didn’t say anything, but my mind was filled with plenty of words: “He’s not that bad. He’s tired. He needs a nap….” So goes the fatherly rationalization.

The problem is that when I minimize my son’s sin, I move towards maximizing my own. Sure, I told him “No.” But perhaps the more dangerous, undetected sin was that in my own heart, the desire that my son not be perceived as rebellious. Image. I don’t want anyone detecting his depravity, even though I know it’s there.

These thoughts will surely lead down a slippery parental path. By minimizing his sin and holding dear other’s interpetations of Owen’s actions, I idolize the perceptions and opinions of others. What is uppermost in my own heart is not Owen’s greatest good, but his [my] appearance before others. I want Owen to be set apart, known as less sinful and more enjoyable. In these moments, I want to be praised for having an exceptionally well-behaved child more than I want my child to recongnize his need for redemption and grace.

What do I do now? Apologize to Owen? Strategize to correct him more quickly? No, first I repent before our Creator for making impression managment, image, more important than the gospel. I require redemption and grace before I move into more gracious and redemptive parenting. I confess that I want the heart of Joseph, who interpreted sin as not ultimately an unkind act towards others, but as rebellion towards a beneficent God. I ask for the forgiveness offered because God’s death in Christ. I grieve my actions and embrace my Father’s warm love and acceptance. I confess that his acceptance satisfies me infinitely more than the acceptance of my in-laws or anyone who holds opinions about my son. I kneel in worship, not at the feet of unregenerate family members (in-laws or children), but at the footstool of an awesome, will-creating, sin-forgiving, soul-transforming, joy-restoring Redeemer.