How to Graduate your High School Student

If you think graduating your children from pre-school is hard, just think what it’s like to graduate your teenager from high school, only to be shipped off to college or the armed services. Parents invest so much in their children that they can easily become more than children, more like little gods. Everything revolves around them, your sense of worth, success, and joy.

With such strong, understandable (but woefully satisfactory) temptations, how do you send your children off to school or their next stage in life? Here’s how, from a graduation invitation from a family in our church:

Our young man graduates June 3.

And then he ships out immediately for US Army boot camp on June 6.

We are so very proud of him and put our trust in God for his life.

Our prayers are that Jesus is glorified through Stephen’s life and service.

Although we can never put our trust in comfort or safety, we can place our hope in the unfailing love of Jesus.

We know you will agree with us in your prayers for him as our amazing young man enters this journey

Pray for the Nixons as Stephen prepares to enter the Army.

What to Think about Elena Kegan?

What are we to think of Obama’s appointment of Elena Kagan? Who is she? Where does she stand on issues? These are the questions that a lot of people are raising. It’s generally agreed that she is liberal judge, but it’s unclear where she stands on a number of controversial issues. What we do know is that Kagan has an impeccable reputation. She is a consummate legal teacher and brilliant scholar. A real Ivy Leaguer. What’s not to like?

Does She Stand for Anything?

David Brooks of the NY Times expresses an interesting concern. He notes that she’s too even-handed, not risky or opinionated enough. Bland? But is risky an attribute we want in a judge? Perhaps, if risky means applying intellectual comprehension to heart conviction. Standing for something. Brooks concludes his piece by saying:

There’s about to be a backlash against the Ivy League lock on the court. I have to confess my first impression of Kagan is a lot like my first impression of many Organization Kids. She seems to be smart, impressive and honest — and in her willingness to suppress so much of her mind for the sake of her career, kind of disturbing.

Do you Stand for Anything?

Strangely, this critique shares much in common with the bland versions of Christianity in our nation. Intellectual but not opinionated, religious but not risky, standing for nothing. You can be moral, honest, and church-going and suppress the very core of the Christian doctrine—risk-taking love that is so enamored with Christ that you can’t help but live a life of radical sacrifice and generosity. If you’re a Christian, perhaps you should be less concerned about Kagan’s liberal orientation and more concerned about what people would say if you caught the limelight.

New Article: Gospel Identity

Boundless ran my newest article “Gospel Identity: We All Have Identity Issues” last week. Picking up on my own battle for identity in Christ, and some fresh research on Chuck Palahniuk, this article presents an honest struggle against the “identity-of-the-moment.” An excerpt:

I sat in my office sulking. My day had been so demanding. My week tiresome. My month an all out marathon, minus the fans.

Pastoring eternal souls, preaching week after week, leading leaders, and being on mission is demanding enough, but occasionally the demands pile higher. As a pastor, I am a sinner that counsels sinners. This means that, despite our common hope in the gospel, there are times that I fail to apply my own gospel counsel to my own soul…{Read the Rest}