This Monday we discussed the Sovereignty of God & Prayer at City Seminary. We defined the sovereignty of God as: “The pleasure of the triune God in ruling over all things.” We then applied this doctrine to anxiety in our lives, which is often manifested in: controlling fear, constant busyness, or distracting habits.
Detecting Anxiety Idolatry
How do you discern where anxiety is festering in your life? Try to find where your feelings are out of control, and you’ll find your idol (paraphrase of TK). For instance, controlling fear may paralyze you in parenting, air travel, or solitude. Our feelings can mislead us. As Thom Yorke says, “Just because you feel it doesn’t mean its there.” Just because you fear failure doesn’t mean its there or to be trusted. Anxiety offers us a false promise: “Be anxious and you’ll have control or peace.”
Moving Beyond Anxiety into Sovereignty
In order to move beyond anxiety, we need a true promise to rely on. Phillipians 4:6-7 promises us “peace that surpasses comprehension” if we will bring our anxieties to God in prayer. Now, this promise can only be true and trustworthy if God is sovereign. If he isn’t, he can’t promise incomprehensible peace in all circumstances. However, there’s a condition on this promise. We must give up self-sovereignty before we can trust in God’s sovereignty. Where are your emotions out of control? What is sovereign in your life? God or fear or busyness?
Prayer Works with a Sovereign God
The way forward from paralyzing anxiety is to trust in God’s sovereignty. This doesn’t happen through mental resignation; it requires genuine prayer and trust in God. Repentance from trusting in false promises and new faith in true promises. This gift of prayer brings us into sweet communion with God.
But if God is sovereign, doesn’t he already know what I will ask? Yes, he does (Matt 6:8) but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t pray. He’s ordained our prayers to sovereignly accomplish our good and keep his promises of peace. Tim Chester puts it well:
God offers us prayer as a possibility and commands us to pray because he is a relational God who purposes to have a relationship with his people. It is not that God receives new data through our prayers, but that through our prayers information is clothed in love making it communication. God has ordained that he will be affected by our loving communication to him.
In prayer, anxious humans meet a joyfully sovereign God. He calls us to deep dependence on him and promises to replace our anxiety with peace.
Books on Prayer
- The Message of Prayer (Tim Chester)
- The Praying Life (Paul Miller)
- Prayer & the Knowledge of God (Graeme Goldsworthy)
- E.M. Bounds on Prayer
- The Valley of Vision (Puritan Prayers)
I’ve used the Pillar commentaries for the past six years. They strike a balance between academic and accessibility. WTS Bookstore is selling the much anticipated Peter O’ Brien’s new Hebrews commentary at 45% off. Plus you can get an additional 10% off other Pillar commentaries. Other commentaries I recommend in this series:
- Letter to the Colossians (Moo)
- Letter to Ephesians (O’Brien)
- Acts of the Apostles (Peterson)
Emailing without thinking. We do it all the time. We fire off communication, without considering whether or not email is an appropriate form of communication. Email has become an extension of thinking instead of an expression of thoughtfulness. Without hesitation we type it out, send it, and wait for a response.
Some things are meant for personal communication. We’ve all had that misinterprerted email, the one that forced us toclarify, apologize, or heaven forbid, talk to the person in the flesh! Avoiding email can be wise. It can be an exercise in discernment and love. Not avoiding email can be foolish. It can be an exercise in selfishness and carelessness. Then there’e the de-civilizing nature of email. The same could be said of Blogging, Texting and Tweeting.
In Send: the essential guide to email in the office and home, Dave Shipley of New York Times addresses various aspects of emailing. He talks about:
- Sending emails when we shouldn’t
- The pitfalls of blind carbon copies (bcc)
- Emotion and emails
Shipley suggests we should ask ourselves “Do I really need to send this email?” He exhorts us: “Think before you send.” Do you think before you send or have you had too many post-sending grimaces? Proverbs tells us we should be “Slow to speak and quick to listen.” We need to apply that wisdom to our social media interactions. Next time you consider sending something of importance or highly personal, pause and think it through. Maybe you should just pick up the phone or meet up in person. Be wise. Be thoughtful. Re-civilize!