Check out my post on the topic here.
Author: Jonathan Dodson
Our Worst for our Kids Best?
Children need to see the best and worst of marriage in order to understand not only the depth of sin but also the luminescent glory of conviction, repentance, grace, reconciliation, and celebration. Otherwise relational darkness will be known but not named. And it will poison the hope of healing. ..Whenever parents fail to grow as human beings, we also refuse that growth opportunity for our children. We cant take our children any farther in life, relationahip, and love that the point we have chose to progress on our own and in our marriages…True redemption involves being struck dumb by the enormity of our failure and then struck even dumber by the enromity of the heart of God that cancels our debt.
~ Dan Allender, How Children Raise Parents, p. 94, 102, 104
Google – Determiner of Obscenity?
Who’s to determine what is obscene these days, especially on the web? Do we need a morality handbook for website filtering or should we just rely on our collective conscience? Or perhaps Google can make the call? In a court case in Florida, where operator of a pornographic web site is being tried, the defense lawyer has summoned Google data to show that the Pensacoloan community prefers sexual content in their web searches, that they are “more likely to use Google to search for terms like “orgy” than for “apple pie” or “watermelon.”
The argument that follows is if most of the community wants it, why should anyone stop it? It appears that, in Pensacoloa, the greater good is less virtue, not more. This, of course, relativizes morality based on community, a real postmodern turn. But this communitarian ethic is moving from cultural postmodern mores to actual legal practice. I wonder how Pensacoloans really feel about this, about their burgeoning sex-charged reputation? This might not attract the kind of tourism the city wants!
Trial date is July 1. NY Times reports that: “In the last eight years, the Justice Department has brought roughly 15 obscenity cases that have not involved child pornography, compared with 75 during the Reagan and first Bush administrations…” Supreme court decisions explicitly rely on “contemporary community standards,” along with two other key factors, which seems to beg the case for a greater standard of morality. After all, if the contemporary community standards move from celebrating pornography to endorsing adultery, how are 50% of the spouses going to feel about that? And what if murder gets popular? The slippery slope of communitarian ethics seems to point beyond the community to a need of a greater judge, a greater, divine community who can offer impartial judgments; however, the identity of such a being or god rarely reaches a community-wide consensus.
Lost in Exile
In my sermon on Ezekiel 36 this Sunday, I attempted to integrate themes of exile from Scripture, LOST, and personal relationships. Have a listen if you like….here.