IsÂ reading the Bible or praying when you don’t feel like it kind of fake? Shouldn’t we wait till we have true feelings to be close to God? Shouldn’t it beÂ authentic?
Values Trump Feelings
Consider what would happen if we applied the same logic to everything else in life. If I only stayed true to my wifeÂ when I felt like it, I would have blown our marriageÂ by now. In fact, we often do things we donâ€™tÂ feelÂ like doing: going to work, disciplining our kids, or having a difficult conversation with a spouse or friend. Why do we do these things? Because, in those instances, we have a value greater than our feelings. OurÂ value trumps the feeling. This is also true in Christianity. We may not feel like praying or reading the Bible, but that shouldn’t lead to abandoning Scripture reading, meditation, and prayer. Why? Because we possess a value greater than feelings. That value isÂ worship. We believe worshipping God–knowing him, enjoying him, receiving and applying his wisdom to our life–is more important than anything else.
What IsÂ Authenticity?
But isnâ€™t itÂ inauthentic to pray and read the Bible whenÂ if you donâ€™t feel it?Â If I read the Bible or pray, particularlyÂ I don’t feel like it, isn’tÂ that just fake? Well, would you say that about the police officer who puts himself in the line of fire when heâ€™d rather be at home with his family, or the mom who patiently corrects her children when she actually feels like screaming and pulling her hairÂ out? Would you charge a friend with inauthenticity because they sat down to confront a friend about their alcoholism when they didn’t feel like it? Authenticity can’t be measured by feelings alone. What, then, determines authenticity?
AuthenticityÂ depends on what you want to be true to. It’s relative. It isn’t inherently noble. What determines the nobility of our authenticity is the thing we trying to be true to.
If you want to be true to your company or personal work ethic, youâ€™ll go to work whether you feel like it or not. If you want to be true to friendship, then youâ€™ll have the hard conversation with your friend. If you want to be true to Jesus Christ, youâ€™ll talk to him, and listen to his Word, whether you â€œwantâ€ to or not. Worship trumps feelings. Worship is Spirit andÂ truth, not truth and feeling (John 4:24). This side of heaven, our feelings will come and go, but with the Spirit’s help weÂ can be faithful and true till heaven reaches us. If you are a Christian, then youâ€™ve said the overarching value of your life is the worship of God, the Father, Son and Spirit.
Reading the Bible and praying, then, is actually one of the most authentic things you can do because it reminds youÂ that youÂ are more than your feelings; youÂ are Christâ€™s. You believe Christ has given you a more authentic way of living, in and with him, more than anything else can offer. Reading the Scriptures then, reminds us of the truth, helps us live in line with our true Self in Christ. TheÂ person who lives this way will, over time, discoverÂ deeper joys, develop sturdier character, and becomeÂ more authentic (not less). Why is this? Because Scripture and prayer bring you near to the overarching truth of your life over and over again. They form worship.